I'm sorry, J-lo is fooling herself if she thinks they're going to get married and if they do get married it's because Ben is a wimp and can't just say no. Come on, even Gwen Paltrow talked about Ben's obsession with strip clubs and booze do you really think the j-ho will put up with that crap? And if she does she will lose a lot of respect. . . oh, wait, does anybody respect her???